Mental toughness for athletes: how to train it

Mental toughness is what you do next

Every athlete has watched it happen. Two players make the same mistake. One shrinks for the rest of the game. The other is back in position before the replay ends. Same talent. Different response.

That response is what people mean by mental toughness. Sport psychologists Daniel Gucciardi and colleagues define it as “a personal capacity to produce consistently high levels of subjective or objective performance despite everyday challenges and stressors as well as significant adversities.” In plain words: you keep playing your game when the game gets hard.

Notice the word capacity. Not personality. Not something you either have or don’t. A capacity can grow, the same way a first step gets quicker with work.

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What mental toughness isn’t

A lot of what gets called toughness gets in the way. Mental toughness isn’t:

1. 01

   Never feeling nervous

   Nerves before a big game are normal. Tough athletes feel them and still run their routine.

2. 02

   Hiding every emotion

   Being upset after a mistake is fine. Staying stuck in it for the next five plays is the problem.

3. 03

   Playing through pain

   Pushing through a real injury isn’t toughness. Telling a coach or trainer is part of competing for the long run.

4. 04

   Yelling louder

   Intensity can help, but volume isn’t a skill. A clear next action is.

Can you train mental toughness?

The research is young, but it points one way. In a two-year study with elite youth cricketers in England, Bell, Hardy and Beattie (2013) built pressure into regular training and taught players coping strategies for it. Coaches rated the trained group as more mentally tough than a comparison group, and they performed better under pressure.

A 2020 review of mental toughness training studies in sport found a large overall effect, while warning that many of the studies were small and had a high risk of bias. So the honest answer: training seems to help, and the best results come from practice that feels like competition, not from talks about grit.

That matches what coaches see. Athletes get tougher in the moments they’ve rehearsed. Which means toughness needs reps, the same as a jump shot.

The four skills under it

Mental toughness is a bundle. Train the pieces and the whole gets stronger.

Five mental toughness drills for practice

Each drill takes five minutes or less inside a normal practice. Pick one per week. Tell your coach what you’re working on.

1. 01

   The next-play cue

   Pick two or three words that send you to your next job, like “eyes up, find a man.” After every mistake in practice, say it before you move.

2. 02

   Pressure reps

   Add a small stake to a drill: a free throw where a miss means the team runs, a serve that must land in. Practice your routine when it counts a little.

3. 03

   Bad-start scrimmage

   Start a scrimmage down 0–3 or with two outs. Practice staying with the process when the score says panic.

4. 04

   The 10-second flush

   After an error, you get 10 seconds to feel it. Then a physical signal (a clap, a glove tap) and back to the next play.

5. 05

   Postgame three

   Write three lines after each game: one thing I controlled, one moment I reset, one thing to practice. Facts, not grades.

Mental toughness by sport

The skill is the same. The moment changes.

Mental toughness for young athletes

Kids and teens can learn the same skills, in smaller pieces. One cue word. One routine. One question after games. The biggest factor is the adults around them: athletes take more risks when a mistake won’t cost them the ride home.

• Mental toughness for young athletes: a parent guide
• What to say to your child after a bad game

Train it like any other rep

Nobody gets tough from one pregame speech. They get tough from a hundred small reps of catching the miss, saying the words and getting back to the play.

That’s what reset is built for. It’s the mental training app for athletes: two minutes a day, three steps. Notice. Name. Return. Try a 2-minute reset, or join the waitlist.